I just talked to Jonah my eldest cousin, I talked to him through my mother who was holding the phone. I completely adore that lovely man. He will probably be my favorite person on the planet for the rest of my life. I base this on the fact that he does the least in the way of talking to me, seeing me, and I have had the least amount of contact with in the past 10 years, and I still miss him the most. Plus, he's just naturally really, really cool.